Saturday, 25 October 2008

ARE YOU STILL SINGLE AND LONELY? - THE REASONS (4)

4. Don’t commit emotional unfaithfulness. It is very important that your partner be someone you care for with kindness. If you let know all of your pet jokes and "bad day" stories to your friend or male partner, when you get home to your honey what will you have left? It may be crazy, but there’s a finest on a person's time and energy — there’s merely so much of it to go around — and if you waste yours with somebody else, you could hurt your relationship. Even worse is being disloyal to your partner's confidences with your male friend or partner. Just ask Dora Brings, a 32-years-old chef from New Mexico. "My husband Eddy and I started growing apart after six years of marriage. Not so drastic, when something good or bad happened, he was no longer the first person I'd tell," she says. "Then my neighbor Dick be honored for it"

She never slept with Dick, but she did begin sharing and became more intimate, such as the reality that her husband wore a wig, a fact Dick joked about at a neighborhood barbecue party. When hearing his business discussed over hot dogs and beer, Eddy was shaken and felt betrayed. He accused his wife of unfaithfulness, precipitate the leading fight the couple had ever had. This unhappy couple patched things up, but Dora was hark backed the tough way that her marriage required to be the number 1 relationship in her life.